Ep 210 Ownership, burnout and belonging with Dr. Matthew Hueman
Episode Description
What if the peak of your career isn’t when you’re most celebrated—but when you no longer need to be?
In this powerful and deeply reflective episode of the BOSS Business of Surgery Series, Dr. Amy Vertrees sits down with surgical oncologist and former military surgeon Dr. Matthew Hueman to explore belonging, burnout, identity, and the quiet work of finding peace in a demanding profession.
Dr. Hueman shares his journey from growing up in a military family and training at West Point, to six military deployments where he discovered the true cost—and power—of belonging. He reflects on the flattening of hierarchy during his final deployment in Somalia and how that experience reshaped his understanding of purpose, leadership, and authenticity.
After transitioning to civilian healthcare, Dr. Hueman found himself burned out—not from working hard, but from doing work that felt increasingly disconnected from meaning. That realization ultimately led him to leave a large healthcare system and focus his practice on breast cancer care, where he now prioritizes presence, relationships, and helping patients find peace amid uncertainty.
Together, Drs. Vertrees and Hueman challenge long-held surgical norms around endurance, ownership, prestige, and external validation. They discuss why breast surgery is often undervalued, how surgeons delay happiness waiting for the “next milestone,” and what it really means to build a career that feels aligned—without waiting for permission.
This episode is an invitation to stop postponing peace—and to begin finding it now.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
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Why burnout is often about meaningless work, not workload
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The hidden cost of belonging—and why it matters in medicine
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How military experiences can reshape leadership and purpose
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Why breast surgery offers profound professional fulfillment
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How surgeons tie self-worth to endurance and external validation
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What it means to reach the “peak” of your career
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How to help patients—and ourselves—find peace in uncertainty
Memorable Quotes
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“The peak of your career isn’t when you’re most celebrated. It’s when you don’t need to be celebrated at all.”
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“The hardest work feels weightless when it’s aligned with purpose.”
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“Burnout isn’t about working too hard—it’s about meaningless hard work.”
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“You shouldn’t postpone peace. You should do it today.”
Chapters / Timestamps
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00:00 – Dr. Hueman’s background and early life
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02:31 – West Point and the meaning of belonging
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03:31 – Military deployments and evolving purpose
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05:35 – Transition to civilian healthcare and burnout
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08:16 – Comparing military and civilian medical missions
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10:36 – Rethinking burnout in medicine
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14:42 – Choosing breast cancer care
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26:26 – Bias against breast surgery
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37:10 – Redefining success and fulfillment
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39:56 – Building a values-driven private practice
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42:51 – Helping patients live with uncertainty
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47:36 – Gratitude and emotional capacity
About the Guest
Dr. Matthew Hueman is a surgical oncologist with a focus on breast cancer care and a former U.S. Army surgeon with six deployments. After leaving a large healthcare organization, he built a private practice centered on presence, autonomy, and helping patients find peace in uncertainty. His work explores purpose, belonging, and meaning in medicine.
About the Host
Dr. Amy Vertrees is a general and breast surgeon, host of the BOSS Business of Surgery Series, and founder of Become the BOSS MD, a coaching program for surgeons focused on mindset, communication, and professional fulfillment.
